tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7385510335590844265.post8697762269200823447..comments2023-05-06T11:28:05.440+01:00Comments on to the 4th floor: I miss you.tothe4thfloorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12069266756557346718noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7385510335590844265.post-13820847043874516612009-09-23T05:58:54.640+01:002009-09-23T05:58:54.640+01:00totally understand, but soon enough you wont remem...totally understand, but soon enough you wont remember this phase and everything will be fine!! something that has helped me when the kids want my attention and i cant give it to them... i have these emergency kits i call them, i go to the dollar store or find random toys and things and i put them in brown paper bags, i have them in my closet downstairs...when the kids start to get a little whiny cause i cant help them, i tell them to go in the closet and get a special bag, they open it and its got something totaly random and "cool" that they've never had before and it gets their mind of me and they're entertained for a little bit....i hope that makes sense :) but its worked for me in troubled times :)Parkinson Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15871688133182458972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7385510335590844265.post-12444594841045203072009-09-14T00:32:26.087+01:002009-09-14T00:32:26.087+01:00I can't imagine what it will be like to have t...I can't imagine what it will be like to have two. i am totally not ready for that challenge. best of luck and i'll be asking you for advise when (and IF) I get to taht stage. much love.Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04606444867798625265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7385510335590844265.post-52791637911562516172009-09-09T05:40:09.206+01:002009-09-09T05:40:09.206+01:00You put exactly into words how I feel with Austin-...You put exactly into words how I feel with Austin- it made me cry! It's so true that you get a pit in your stomach when they just want you attention and you don't have it to give. I'm so glad you documented that- it will be a treasure for marissa for years to come. And she'll probably say, but I'm so glad we have Natalie now! You are amazing Tanya. Thanks for letting us come over the other night and hang out with you.The Lambshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03391610973631604363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7385510335590844265.post-17117470189978752082009-09-08T16:43:49.036+01:002009-09-08T16:43:49.036+01:00Tanya--
I don't know how you feel, but I'...Tanya--<br /><br />I don't know how you feel, but I've been planning the day I bring another baby into our home for almost 2 years now. It is so hard to imagine someone else coming into my life with Carson. I can only hope that Carson will understand, and will remember these times that we have had just the two of us. It's scary, and sad to me to think that one day it won't just be Carson and me. But-- I know he's lonely now without another sibling. I know he wants someone to play with--- he asks me all the time for a brother or sister to play with... so, just keep that in mind when you are feeling sad. Marisa knows you love her very much! You're a good mom--- I know you're just super tired-- and feeling uneasy about the changes.<br /><br />Maybe what you should do is have a full day of just Tim and Marisa. Disneyland, or something very special for just the two of them... and once Natalie is a little older, you can do that with you and Marisa. <br /><br />I wish it wasn't $300 for me to fly out there-- otherwise I'd come help you tomorrow!!! I love you girl, stay strong!<br /><br />Keep that letter to Marisa...one day she'll write you a letter telling you how grateful she is that you gave her a sister to love, just like you and Leslie!kristenharrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02765642399546259010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7385510335590844265.post-50524626918717203012009-09-08T03:13:18.227+01:002009-09-08T03:13:18.227+01:00tanya, if anyone knows how you feel it's ME!!...tanya, if anyone knows how you feel it's ME!!!! i've felt soooo bad from day ONE for not having enough time or enough arms to give each girl attention. i just know the feeling you were describing. just so you know, even though they are young i think they understand (either that or they'll just get over it...haha). i can tell that you are doing a good job!!LieslPiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11137632430919687439noreply@blogger.com